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See it from the horse’s point of view

Author: Barry Welford | The Other Blokes Blog

I recently came across the website of Harry Whitney, which has the tagline “From the Horse’s Point of View“. It struck me that the phrase represents an approach to working with horses that is becoming increasingly popular.

 

In some ways it parallels a growing view in marketing circles, that you should be customer-centric to achieve selling success.  You must try to see things from the customer's point of view.  That is not always easy because customers may not always see things as you would like them to do. It is sometimes tough between human beings to be sure you fully understand the other's point of view.  Just imagine how much more difficult it is when trying to work with horses.

You could almost turn the title of this article into a mantra to help guide your actions if you work with horses.  See it from the horse’s point of view.  I know of at least two important people in the horse world who would be very comfortable with that mantra.

Mantras

aum mantra

According to Indian traditions, a mantra is a sound, syllable, word, or group of words that is considered capable of "creating transformation", according to Wikipedia.   By repeating your mantra from time to time during your day, the theory is that you will be transformed.

The simplest mantra is illustrated in the image at the right.  In sound terms it is pronounced Om or Aum and is probably very familiar to you.

The idea of using a mantra has been suggested in all sorts of of fields.  It may even improve your golf:

A Mantra for Your Mental Golf

At first, a mantra doesn't sound like something that could be helpful to your golf game, but the more I study and practice mental golf the more I realize the value of tools like this. In its basic form, a mantra is a sentence or phrase that is repeated verbally or mentally to help focus the mind on an idea.

In other words, a mantra is a very simple device to keep you focused and thinking along the right lines.

A Mantra For Design

When I was young growing up in the north-east of England, I remember traveling circuses would visit and set up their Big Top in the local park.  It was really exciting to see the circus horses as they moved at high speed around the circus ring with their death-defying riders performing incredible feats of horsemanship.  What could be more natural and exciting.

cavalia

Here in Vancouver we have just been blessed with a visit by Cavalia, a really exciting show with horses and acrobats again performing mind blowing acts.  However surprisingly this is not done in a big top with a circus ring.  Normand Latourelle, the creator of Cavalia, is an enthusiast about horses for their beauty and power and the links that have been established between humans and horses over the centuries.  However at every step of the way in creating the setting for Cavalia, he is thinking of how it will appear from the horse’s point of view.

I first designed the stage, I wanted a place where the horse will have enough room to play, to run, in order to give a playground to the horse. So it is a stage that is 150 feet wide, the biggest touring stage, and it's 80 feet deep, which also is very big.

A Mantra for Horsemanship

That same mantra, See it from the horse’s point of view, could well be the tagline for a celebrated natural horseman here in Langley.  That is Jay O'Jay, who is also a director of Valley Therapeutic Equestrian Association.

That phrase implies a whole set of factors that are important in working with a horse.  It has some overlap with other concepts in phrases like Think Like Your Horse, but to my mind it goes much farther.

To understand the concepts involved, you could not do better than to see Jay O'Jay in  person at a clinic or visit his website.  Here we will just explore one or two aspects of this mantra.

The reason why you must See it from the horse’s point of view is that in some ways a horse is an alien creature.  The way its brain works is very different from the way a human brain works.  Only by trying to understand how that alien brain is working can we start out on a path to a relationship.

Establishing a relationship with a horse is in a way a most unlikely thing to do.  A human is a predator and a horse is a prey animal.  Lions and lambs rarely lie down together in real life.

Although you may have signed the legal papers and paid out money to become the owner of the horse, the horse knows nothing of that.  There's a deal of work to do before the horse will acknowledge that it is Your Horse.  If the relationship is built up in the right way, then your horse will respond to you with its whole mind, body and spirit.

Many new riders are excited to jump on a horse and start riding as quickly as possible.  This can be especially so with children whose parents are eager to see what their young offspring can do.  With a horse that has been well trained, they may achieve credible results.  However this is more by good luck than by good management.

At some point in time, the horse will refuse to do what is being asked.  Although forceful actions may cause the horse eventually to do what was needed, the horse is an unwilling partner in that relationship.  It will never deliver 100% of what it is capable of.  It is so much better to remember the mantra and see it from the horse’s point of view.

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Learn How To Connect With Your Horse In Langley BC

Author: Barry Welford | The Other Blokes Blog

As the Horse Capital of BC, where better to learn about connecting with horses than in Langley.

Mark your calendar because there is a free demonstration of how to start connecting with your horse.  The details are as follows:

It will be given by Jay OJay, the celebrated horseman, now based in Langley  who helps fine riders and their spirited horses get connected.  He will be demonstrating just what is possible with his own very young horses, Casper, Junior and Grace.

When Saturday August 28th from 1:30 pm to 3:00 pm
Where: VTEA Riding Center (Valley Therapeutic Equestrian Association)
3330 256th Street
Aldergrove, BC  V4W 1Y4
Schedule: 1:30  -  1:50           Working with Casper
1:50  -  2:10           Working with Junior
2:10  -  2:20                   Intermission
2:20  -  2:40           Working with Grace
2:40  -  3:00           Q and A with Jay O’Jay

The demonstration will be given in a round pen  in the arena, which is being generously provided by a close neighbour,  Dare’s Country Feeds, 25236 Fraser Highway, Aldergrove (Telephone: 604-856-1611)

Jay OJay with young horses

If Jay OJay is a new name to you, you can find all about him, his training methods and his training DVDs on the Jay OJay website:

Jay O’Jay is a horseman who specializes in developing a respectful relationship and connection between horse and rider. His passion is the Western discipline of Reining, but through his clinics, videos and demonstrations, he aspires to teach "transferable skills" to riders and horse owners of all disciplines and experience. Those skills, based on the ability to earn respect and gain control of the horse, are the central elements in Jay’s "common sense" approach to his training program.

Jay has nurtured the natural gift he has for working with and connecting with horses – as well as people. With a personal mission to improve everyone’s relationship and experience with their horse, he shares his respect for the horse with enthusiasm, patience, and passion.

To contact Jay OJay, call 778-686-9115 or e-mail him at jayojay@gmail.com.

This is a show not to be missed, so make sure to be there on Saturday August 28.


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You And Your Horse: Connections In Langley, BC

Author: Barry Welford | The Other Blokes Blog

Making Connections


Connecting with others is a key priority in these stressful times.  Despite the frenetic pace of life for most people, they will still set aside some time to be in touch with their loved ones and with their friends, colleagues and acquaintances.

Writing letters used to be the way, but few now do that.  For most the short message (or even a tweet) that Facebook or Twitter make so easy is a great way of saying ‘I’m here’.

Connecting with a Horse

Many horse owners find a particularly important connection is the one they have with their horse. If you want to understand more on that, there are lots of resources on the Internet to explore what can be involved in that.  Connecting With Horses on the VTEA website (more on them below) is a good compendium of some of the ‘movers and shakers’ in this rapidly developing field.

Langley, Horse Capital of BC

Langley is often said to be the Horse Capital of BC so it is not surprising that you will find some shining examples here of how people are connecting with their horses.  The relationship between a horse owner and his or her horse is complex when the best possible connection is being achieved.  After all, the horse is a prey animal, fearing constantly about attacks by predators, while we humans are by nature predators.  Overcoming that barrier is something that requires the right attitude and gentle persistence.

VTEA

If you want to see connections between horses and their riders that work, there is nothing better than visiting one of the establishments that provides therapeutic horseback riding programs to special needs children.  One such in Langley is VTEA (Valley Therapeutic Equestrian Association) at 3330 256th Street, Aldergrove in Langley, BC.  You can read much more on what they do at their website at http://www.vtea.ca/

Jay O’Jay

Perhaps you have not caught up with the latest news but a celebrated expert on You and Your Horse: Connections is now resident in Langley.  That’s my way of explaining what he does, not his.  He believes that the nature of the relationship between the owner and the horse is critical and in some cases may present serious challenges.  However, rarely do you have problem horses.  All that is missing is that the owner and the horse have not yet developed a  mutually-satisfying relationship.  You can read more on his thinking and what he does at his website at http://www.jayojay.com/

Two upcoming events

If you want to see Connections with Horses in practice, rather than just reading about them, then two events are coming up very shortly that are ideal opportunities.

Jay O’Jay Open House

Jay O’Jay will be holding an Open House where you can see him in action demonstrating how you make connections.  It’s free, refreshments will be available and it is taking place on Sunday 20th June at 1:00 pm.  You can find that at 8575 240th Street, Langley BC.  Just park carefully along the roadside and wander in.  Sorry but you should leave your dog(s) in your car (with the window slightly down) or at home, since those predators can be distracting.

VTEA Annual Horse Show

A week later on Saturday June 26th, VTEA is holding its annual Horse Show.  It runs from 10:00 am to 3:00 pm or later so there’s lots of opportunities for you and your children to pop in.  You will see how the special needs children have developed the connections with their horses and a fun time is guaranteed.

Members of the BC Hot Rod Association will also be present with some of their cars so there’s something for anyone.  You can even become a member or renew your membership for the coming year.  It’s only $5 but that and your involvement in whatever way you can will help strengthen some of the very best connections with horses you will ever see.


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